Brief text from FF last night. I replied, then silence. I'm being sensible, as is he, but I feel like screaming at the phone.
Just had text from France; he's just going in the tunnel (The one under the channel silly!) Lovely and eloquent communication from him last night. Clear boundaries and expectations yet emotional and desirable.
Budding Vet and Sportacus with me today; the latter is poorly, keeping a close eye on him.
Manc Audition Master is pushing for an early date and it's excitingly lurid and naughty but there is absolutely no way he gets priority over the children and he's going to have to deal with that. That is the test of a potentially intelligent and sensitive bed-fellow who will wait no matter what... and a completely selfish unintelligent one who cannot see beyond the end of his own penis.
I want a Floyd Fan date.
Don't have one.
France moves comfortably into second place: I feel good about him and he's not rushing things, he's being discreet, well-mannered and keeping in touch without appearing 'needy' which is completely the right approach.
Thirdly, Audition Master who is eagerly waiting, script in hand...well he can wait...for now.
White van man has been politely declined and he was most gracious that I'd had the manners to tell him...but manners are essential, especially concerning sex; hence my aversion to Army Boss.
Role of mother takes precedent now.