She died less than five minutes after everything was switched off, reduced, withdrawn. You actually get an information pack when your next of kin dies so you know what happens next etc.
I think the coroner has her body now until it is released. Then the funeral will be organised after that. This is the time when you realise how far and wide this family has become.
Witnessing the macabre deterioration is now over for him and I am glad.
Heroin addict boyfriend said she didn't know when to stop...even for him. Apparently the appropriate term for him is 'user' not addict. He could not stop her for anything he said. She enjoyed what she did. And now she's dead.Believe it or not, he holds down a fairly professional job.
Needless to say, he's organising the funeral side of things as far as I am aware, but the rest of the family will no doubt help. A calm has descended in a 'back to business' type of way.
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Kibitz
- Monday, 11. Aug, 2008 @ 10:54:55
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Prettyintelligentprincess
Pro - Monday, 11. Aug, 2008 @ 21:19:34
But they won't....x
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SeasideMan
Pro - Monday, 11. Aug, 2008 @ 11:19:23
There's nothing anyone can say right now to make things any better. But there are lots of us who know just how you feel and who hope for "normality" to return for you as soon as possible.
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Prettyintelligentprincess
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- Monday, 11. Aug, 2008 @ 21:22:38
Tom, thank you. You are such a kind man and I was mad at the petulant bourgeoisie wannabe's comments to you...she lacks the compassion she claims to have so much of.
Take care.
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SeasideMan
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- Monday, 11. Aug, 2008 @ 21:35:30
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MissyMouse
- Monday, 11. Aug, 2008 @ 11:58:18
The time between now and the funeral is a pretty odd time. Take care of you and your loved ones and be there to support each other!
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Prettyintelligentprincess
Pro
- Monday, 11. Aug, 2008 @ 21:24:01
Thank you missymouse...her body has been sent to the coroner
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MichaelStMark
Pro - Monday, 11. Aug, 2008 @ 16:20:33
Truly tragic and grim reading, PIP.
When people can't or won't act on wise counsel oft' repeated over time, the consequences are usually predictable by being well documented by those who went before.
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Prettyintelligentprincess
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- Monday, 11. Aug, 2008 @ 21:25:32
It still leaves one feeling so so frustrated though doesn't it. But thanks for reading...and I'm enjoying all your blog right now.
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But I dont.
Except perhaps ...
The users I know should read this post.
Adam ... x